Founder of Flat Friends, Founder Trustee, and Treasurer
I was diagnosed aged 45 with IDC in my right breast, with single node involvement. Hormone and HER2 positive.I had single mastectomy, chemo and targeted drugs. Right from diagnosis I knew that none of the reconstruction options were for me, but having big breasts, I wasn’t happy being lopsided. I was lucky and my surgeon agreed to remove my remaining breast. I love living flat and will work to promote it as an equal and positive option.
I couldn’t find any support or advice about living flat within the UK, so decided to start Flat Friends, to help ladies who have had a mastectomy without reconstruction.
Chair, and Founder Trustee
I was diagnosed with Grade 3 invasive breast cancer in my right breast in December 2014 at the age of 35. I knew instantly that I wanted a bilateral mastectomy without reconstruction for both peace of mind and symmetry. Whilst my surgeon was supportive, a remark from a breast care nurse – that I should reconsider my decision to live flat because I would struggle to find nice clothes – inspired me to set up the website Flatter Fashion in January 2015, where I shares ideas on which styles suit post-surgery body shapes. I’ve been a member of Flat Friends since April 2015.
Since finishing active treatment I left my job in corporate project support to retrain as a social worker. I live in Norfolk, and when not trying on clothes I enjoy walking my two dogs.
I was 44 when I was diagnosed in 2013 with Grade 3 ER+ IDC with lymph node involvement in my left breast. My treatment plan started with 6 rounds FECT chemo, left mastectomy with full axilla clearance and finished off with 3 weeks of radiotherapy and I’m currently on tamoxifen.
I didn’t want to put my body through the process of reconstruction, so after giving my body time to recover from all the active treatment I had a right prophylactic mastectomy in 2015 for symmetry.
I have been a member of Flat Friends from the start, and I try to help others who face a breast cancer diagnosis with my own experience, so that they can make an informed decision with regards to the path they wish to take.
The opportunity to join the trustees at Flat Friends arose in 2021; five years after my diagnosis with grade 3, multifocal, invasive breast cancer.
I was fortunate to achieve flat symmetry at first surgery and following adjuvant therapies was happy to be able to return quickly to a very full and active life with my three boys.
This choice is not widely available and very rarely discussed at diagnosis. It is usually a patient-initiated conversation and can be met with a measure of incredulity. Flat Friends are partnering research and campaigning for all choices to be fully presented to every breast cancer patient and I am very pleased to be able to continue the momentum and help push the charity’s agenda forward.
Whilst I am a physiotherapist by profession, I have spent the past decade managing a gynaecological oncology practice; negotiating patient pathways and liaising with hospitals and funding bodies.
Sadly Sue passed away on 25th June 2020, but will always remain at the heart of Flat Friends.
I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer in June 2014 and had a double mastectomy and left side node clearance a month later, My cancer was hormone positive, HER2 negative and had 3 nodes involved. Chemo and radiotherapy followed and I am currently on Tamoxifen.
I disliked the idea of plastic surgery and didn’t see the point of reconstruction, as the end result would never look as I had before. I generally go flat now, but occasionally wears prostheses, but it is the exception rather than the rule.
A cancer diagnosis is hard to take in and some big decisions regarding your body have to be made. Recon is not always the right choice for everyone and I would like to help ladies facing that decision to know that they are not alone and they can talk to us frankly and freely.
Professor Dame Lesley Fallowfield
DBE, BSc, D.Phil, F.Med.Sci
I am Director of Sussex Health Outcomes Research & Education in Cancer (SHORE-C), a research group dedicated to exploring the implications of a cancer diagnosis and the benefits and harms of different treatments.
I have worked in breast cancer research for more than 30 years and was author of one of the first studies showing that breast conserving surgery did not prevent the anxiety, depression and sexual difficulties associated with mastectomy.
I am never afraid to challenge orthodoxy through good research and am delighted to be a Patron of Flat Friends.
I have been an actress for over 30 years and in that time I have been lucky to have played a wide variety of characters both on stage, television and film.
More recently I played DCI Newman in a new series called ‘The Level’ for ITV, although I’m probably best known for my role as ‘Carol Jackson’ in the BBCs ‘Eastenders’. It’s here that I met Gilly Cant when she advised on the storyline for my character’s double mastectomy, and she helped me understand how important it is for women who decide against reconstruction to be properly supported.
Along with other charities that I support, I am honoured to be a Patron of Flat Friends UK.
BSc (Hons) MBBS (Hons) FRCS (Gen Surg)
I am a consultant oncoplastic breast surgeon based on the south coast of England.
Although I offer reconstruction to my patients, I consider myself a cancer surgeon first and foremost and I’m a strong advocate for patient involvement in decision making. I believe patients should be offered all choices available to them, including prophylactic mastectomy as an equal option to achieving symmetry. Supporting patients through their choices is of paramount importance – living ‘flat’ should not be seen as a stigma.
My research interests focus on the reasons for and barriers to prophylactic mastectomy. Gilly Cant was my patient and through her initial research concept and SHORE-C I have engaged with surgeons and nurses to help investigate this important question.
I am delighted to be involved as a Patron of Flat Friends and spreading their message both nationally and internationally.